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Monday, April 17th, 2006
4:47 pm Fuck Friends Only Leave You Fucked....
Recently I read a post on another blog I follow (what you though you were special?). The subject of friendship between men and women was brought up. Wait im lying actually what was brought up was a very common problem of "fuck friends". It actually is a little bit more complicated than that (isn’t it always?) but to simplify the problem "fuck friends" pose to everyone.
Here is the thing ladies. Men are pigs. Now I know you maybe be saying to yourself "what else is knew, I’ve known that for years" well honestly I don’t think many of you have.
Every man from your father to the man who cuts your lawn is a pig. Its our nature. There are levels to our pig like nature of course but, be aware than even a nice guy has a pig inside of him. So it amazes me that women agree to the "fuck buddy" system. In which you can call each other up for sex without strings at any time.
People, all of sex has strings. In one form or another it always comes back to you. About 90% of all women who say they are okay with "just sex" are secretly hopping that, that man will one day wake up and realize that yes they have the perfect girlfriend right next to them. Wake up call ladies! By having sex with the man you like on the first date, or agreeing to the fuck buddy system, you are ensuring yourself as "just a friend". I suppose there is justice in the world that women too can be caught in the "friend zone".
Its disgusting I know but if you make yourself to availible to a man, its our nature not to like you. This goes vice a versa I suppose, since I too have been too availible for women, ensuring my place in "best friend hall of fame". Its at these times that I am very happy not being a relationship. Because I see the utter stupidity people in the dating world commit (and I include myself as well).
It amazes me how someone so smart could call for things that are so idiotic. They bitch and cry about how men only look at them as a friend or casual fling but not a relationship. But yet they constantly put themselves in such a position. Why agree to being a casual fuck if you want more? Newsflash you are not going to change that mans mind.
I repeat don’t go after bad boys expecting to change them. Its not going to happen. And the most ironic thing is that usually what they are looking for is staring right at them in the face. But they would rather chase after some fantasy and try something real.
I include myself in this dilema. When I went after Mariel, I expected her to realize that I David Arroyo was standing next to her, her perfect choice in a guy. All I really did was ensure my broken heart. Because I did not become "her man" I became her rebound. You become a filter for all the crap and emotional baggage that person is going through. So that at the end of the months of hell you go through, someone else can come in and pick up your "soul mate" and makes a nice life for themselves.
Congratulations you just made life easier for the next guy. Don’t you feel great about yourself?
See what I mean? We put ourselves in bad situations. We only get hurt because we allow ourselves to get hurt. When we cry, we are angry because not only are we in pain but its our own fault. Why do we do this? Perhaps it is human nature that we have to jump in front of a moving bus. Honestly If I had an answer for that question I would not be driving a car for a living.
So do me a favor guys, be brutally honest with that person your using as a back up. And back ups, think twice before making a deal with the devil. Because having a fuck friend only esures that you get fucked...
Monday, April 17th, 2006
4:47 pm Fuck Friends Only Leave You Fucked....
Recently I read a post on another blog I follow (what you though you were special?). The subject of friendship between men and women was brought up. Wait im lying actually what was brought up was a very common problem of "fuck friends". It actually is a little bit more complicated than that (isn’t it always?) but to simplify the problem "fuck friends" pose to everyone.
Here is the thing ladies. Men are pigs. Now I know you maybe be saying to yourself "what else is knew, I’ve known that for years" well honestly I don’t think many of you have.
Every man from your father to the man who cuts your lawn is a pig. Its our nature. There are levels to our pig like nature of course but, be aware than even a nice guy has a pig inside of him. So it amazes me that women agree to the "fuck buddy" system. In which you can call each other up for sex without strings at any time.
People, all of sex has strings. In one form or another it always comes back to you. About 90% of all women who say they are okay with "just sex" are secretly hopping that, that man will one day wake up and realize that yes they have the perfect girlfriend right next to them. Wake up call ladies! By having sex with the man you like on the first date, or agreeing to the fuck buddy system, you are ensuring yourself as "just a friend". I suppose there is justice in the world that women too can be caught in the "friend zone".
Its disgusting I know but if you make yourself to availible to a man, its our nature not to like you. This goes vice a versa I suppose, since I too have been too availible for women, ensuring my place in "best friend hall of fame". Its at these times that I am very happy not being a relationship. Because I see the utter stupidity people in the dating world commit (and I include myself as well).
It amazes me how someone so smart could call for things that are so idiotic. They bitch and cry about how men only look at them as a friend or casual fling but not a relationship. But yet they constantly put themselves in such a position. Why agree to being a casual fuck if you want more? Newsflash you are not going to change that mans mind.
I repeat don’t go after bad boys expecting to change them. Its not going to happen. And the most ironic thing is that usually what they are looking for is staring right at them in the face. But they would rather chase after some fantasy and try something real.
I include myself in this dilema. When I went after Mariel, I expected her to realize that I David Arroyo was standing next to her, her perfect choice in a guy. All I really did was ensure my broken heart. Because I did not become "her man" I became her rebound. You become a filter for all the crap and emotional baggage that person is going through. So that at the end of the months of hell you go through, someone else can come in and pick up your "soul mate" and makes a nice life for themselves.
Congratulations you just made life easier for the next guy. Don’t you feel great about yourself?
See what I mean? We put ourselves in bad situations. We only get hurt because we allow ourselves to get hurt. When we cry, we are angry because not only are we in pain but its our own fault. Why do we do this? Perhaps it is human nature that we have to jump in front of a moving bus. Honestly If I had an answer for that question I would not be driving a car for a living.
So do me a favor guys, be brutally honest with that person your using as a back up. And back ups, think twice before making a deal with the devil. Because having a fuck friend only esures that you get fucked...
posted by Bohemia6 | 10:41 PM
2 Comments:
Lamentable sobre la lengua vulgar, pero como decimos aquí, "si usted actúa como una puta, usted será tratado como una puta." En este caso, usted fue usado sólo por alguien como "standby sex".
Lo siento.
Perdóneme, por favor permita que clarifique. Mi comentario estaba para la muchacha que comenzó la entrada original. Convengo con lo que tuvo que decir el caballero.
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